Hebrews 12:15

"Looking diligently lest any man fail of the Grace of God; 

lest any root of bitterness springing up trouble you, 

and thereby many be defiled.

This tree needs to be chopped down and the ROOT allowed to die.

Don't nurse your grudges!

envision a tree ....the branches are anger

the trunk is unforgiveness

and the big roots are Bitterness

Dearest,

Since what happened and the division at ______.  I have watched with a heavy and grieving heart this root of bitterness growing in you.  It is playing havoc with your nervous system and causing dissatisfaction and unrest.  Because of your time in life and changes that are naturally happening - this root of bitterness is especially dangerous for you.  

The cross of our dear Savior has become dim to you.  You are able to say and do acts that never would have been part of your way of life before.  We are to walk worth of the vocation to which we have been called.  Holiness and all of its beautiful freedoms has become abhorrent to you and you scorn the very things that our Lord Jesus treasures.  His Way is pure, sweet, tender, merciful and forgiving.  The Way is the same for all of us.  

Our dear Lord is no respecter of persons.

Remedy: 

- Say you are sorry to Jesus for being so angry with our Savior and friend and to our Father.  

Ask Him to forgive you.

- As you seek Him who knows all things say this prayer 

-(Name of Person who has hurt you) "for anything I have done that may have contributed to this hurt or broken relationship  

Father Forgive me.

Say this prayer as often as needed, daily, hourly, putting in the names of all who have hurt you.  Coupled with fasting.  Isaiah 58

You will begin to see and feel forgiveness and inner healing come.  There is no time to waste, be angry and complain about being misunderstood -

Make haste to come back quickly to the throne of Grace.  Jesus sits upon the Mercy Seat, not one of judgment at this time.  May His sweet peace soon be yours.

Love, your friend