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Posted by angelbutt
Hello. my husband and i have been trying
to have a child for a little over 2 yrs now
and we found out the he is so close to
legally steril. im 22, and he is 24, any
suggestions on howe to help him grieve,
having a child has been a dream for the both
of us, now we just feel lost and out of
control. my husb mike is in the USAF, and
they dont pay for anyting that revolveas
around fertility, we are just so upset, and
the cost of artifit. insem. is to much for
just one try, just need saupport and some
information. - angelbutt |
So sorry;
I wanted to ask if there might be 'occupational'
hazards such as this for those in some jobs in the
military? You've heard of 'gulf war syndrome' &
others even in other times of service are having
symptoms, too. Anyway, one man in the mid 80s who was
an aviation ordenance man said he kept coming back to
the jet fuel.
Recently I spoke with a current Green Beret that says
he was doused in jet fuel many times standing behind
the C-130s awaiting boarding as a paratrooper (In his
case he also cleaned a lot of weapons). He has severe
'gulf war syndrome' ... fatigue, depression, grand mal
seizures, personality change ... short term memory
loss, can't concentrate ...
Your husband might check and see if others doing his
job either have the 'symptoms' or are having
difficulty having children. The
solvents/pesticides/poisons that could be added to
fuel and gun cleaner & do such are ethylene oxide
or ethylene glycol monobutyl ether (2-butoxyethanol)
these both target the testes; and jet fuels # 3,4,5, 6
are labeled as pesticides - so this is not a far
stretch.
Does he seem tired a lot? Check the RETIC ratio &
see if his red blood cells are full functioning or low
functioning. (Too many immature red blood cells) ...
one of these causes hemolytic anemia. But both can
cause birth defects; or with too much exposure - maybe
inability to have children, as the US Coast guardsman
I reference, who shared with me last year about zero
sperm count.
On the bright side: I know a family that gave up on
having their own children after 12 years of marriage;
and as soon as they adopted 2 brothers, the wife got
pregnant with their own child.
Physically being able to have a child is not all
that's necessary to have a son or daughter; being a
father and a mother is still on the horizon, don't you
think?